To preface this, I think it's fine for bi trans girls to hang out here. There isn't much of a space online for trans women who date men to talk, and they are trans women who date men, so it makes sense that they'd need this.
However, them saying that feeling excluded here is biphobia is really funny to me. Normally it's biphobic to call bi women "just straight." Distinguishing bi women from straight women is the opposite of biphobia, lmao.
When I first came out and transitioned, I used to be a lot more chill with self-identified "man-haters." Over time though, I noticed that these people rarely believe the things they say they do. I don't really see them punching up in practice, or being kinder to non-men. I see them being super judgemental of women who like men, standoffish with trans women who don't pass and AMAB nonbinary people and trans men who do pass, distrustful of Black and brown men and treating them as dangerous, and ultimately always end up projecting everything they hate about men onto me.
I'm thinking maybe this is because "man-hating" very quickly becomes bio essentialism, which becomes TERF ideology. I'm wondering if anyone else has noticed this too though.
It feels so surreal. I can't believe we just happened to meet by chance at a party. He's everything I could have ever hoped for. So sweet, caring, gentle, compassionate, driven, intelligent... It almost feels too good to be true sometimes. I hope I make a good impression on his parents.
Instead, all the red pressers are transported to one planet, and all the blue pressers are transported to another identical planet. Each one must cooperate and create a society together. You must live with all the people who made the same choice you did. Are you happy with your choice?