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Most of my life i used to be atheist. Proudly atheist. One day life hits me. Suddenly i was passing the worst period of my life. I started getting angry, questioning why is this happening to me. I am a good person. I am kind, i am truthful, i am compassionate, i have good moral compass.

I passed many days locked up in the house. Barely going out to walk my dog.

One day I had to go out from the house and i had to take an Uber to go to see a doctor. On my way back home i also took an uber. The driver started making conversation. He started telling me that he passed a bankruptcy and he found peace in reading the Bible. I stayed quiet and listen. He told me that God doesn’t not give bad things to bad people, he gives bad things to good people to turn them to his way. He told me stories from the Bible. I stayed quiet and listen.

I got home, I thanked him for this discussion and got home.

I got home, i open the door and started crying. I open the first time the Bible and started reading it.

One thing I didn’t told you, is that i was going through bankruptcy as well in that moment.

Later edit: I strongly believe i met that person for a reason. I felt touched by god. I felt him calling me to him. He showed me his there.

Hear me out! I was watching Tucker Carlson interview with Yulia Medel and i had been thinking about how shady the Russia- Uk war it is. She was working for his presidency cabinet. I came to this questions after she is stating that he was frequently in Russia before coming to presidency. In his election he pointed about peace with Russia because this is what he knew people wanted. Coming to power was a sudden shift. I know the majority of politicians shifts after getting elected.

I have this questions i put to myself and i am addressing this questions to you as well.

What if Zelenskyy is a Trojan horse? What if he’s secretly working with Putin to bankrupt Europe? What if some of the money sent to Ukraine ends up benefiting Russia? Maybe that’s why the war keeps going and peaceful discussions are avoided.
Weaker Europe means stronger Russia.

Btw- in this thread I don’t discuss who started the war or not. I don’t discuss who is the bad guy or who is the good guy. So please refrain from posting about this. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

What do you think?

#dontjudge

I 33F, husband 45M, father in law 79M

I come from different nationality. I am with my Husband 8 years now, married for 3. Because i am different nationality, we always had one house in my country, 1 car etc. my father in law has also a business in my country, where I worked. I put my heart for this company. I worked like its mine.

Usually (cause for sure you will have questions) i will travel often to my husband country or him to mine. So we never had problems.

Now, the company started going south because of a decision of my father in law to push the cashflow. We tried to save it, but we went straight to bankruptcy.

Now, my father in law considers that me and my husband are responsible for everything. He took my husband and sent him “with a job” somewhere and he left me deal with the f bankruptcy. I mean, i am passing the worst period of my life.

Now my father in law decided to take my car and sell it. Without discussing, without nothing. I mean the car is his, I understand. But still give me a heads up. Nothing!
I feel he is doing thjs to punish us!

Now, he decided to propose me doing another business in my country. After everything i have been through I decided that I cannot rely on him and i want to be independent. I have my business idea and i want to follow it. He instantly lushed and told me to have “a nice life”

I know i am dealing with a controlling narcissist, thats why I decided going solo.

I discussed with my husband, but he still wants to keep his father near.

Believe me, wasn’t an easy decision going solo, but I didn’t had another choice. This man is not right in his mind. Always playing games and gaslighting. Many times he disrespected me. Sometimes I believe he wants to make his son suffer. He always presents me to his friends as his wife. Last Christmas he told me he wants a wife like me. That my husband is stingy and he is not. My husband knows all this and he tells me his is joking. I don’t like this jokes.

After everything, i had last night a discussion with my husband and i told him that I don’t want to see or hear his father anymore. Not Christmas parties, birthday parties, nothing. If he wants to go, to go alone. He told me i am not reasonable. Am I?