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My wife and I are torn between Oak Park + Evanston (and wondering if there's other places we should be looking)

Mid-30s couple, no kids, both in tech. We're currently in Atlanta and the car-dependence + traffic here has officially killed us. We're both also progressives who have lived in the South and want to get out and try living in a city/state that aligns better with our beliefs and priorities. We're introverts but not shy. We love books, crafting and smaller groups. We're not looking for nightlife.

We're looking for a single-family home with a small yard, and ideally some walkability. Budget is $650-800K. We like independent bookstores and coffee shops, quiet residential streets, and we want a neighborhood that feels like a community and not an entertainment district.

I've been digging into Oak Park and Evanston pretty hard. Both check a lot of boxes on paper. They both have walkable downtowns, good transit, solid indie business scenes. But the more I look at Oak Park the more it feels like it's built for families (great schools, family-oriented civic stuff). We don't have kids and don't plan to, so I keep wondering if we'd feel a little out of place there, or if that's me overthinking it.

Evanston I like a lot culturally. It feels very suited to us, but it's scraping the very top of our budget and the inventory in the area seems tight right now.

So I basically have two main questions:

  1. if you live in Oak Park without kids, how has that actually felt, is the family thing overstated or is it real.
  2. Are there other Chicagoland neighborhoods or nearby towns we should be looking at? Walkable, detached SFH in budget, progressive, low-key, not a ton of nightlife. Open to city or suburb.

Appreciate any honest takes. Thanks!

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u/FeedMeEthereum — 10 days ago