What do I do?
So my ex (24M) and I (25F) have been messing with each other for 2years & 7months. The first year we was in an actual relationship. The other year & 7 months we haven’t been in a relationship but does everything like we was still in a relationship. Now I’m pregnant by him but he always made it clear he was too young for a child. He does make it clear though he wants a child with me. I already have a child from a previous relationship so I always told him if I end up pregnant before he feels like he’s financially stable I don’t mind terminating the pregnancy. Which I honestly kinda don’t still cause I don’t want him to resent me for making him something he’s not ready for. Now that I actually am though I don’t want too kinda. I do know this pregnancy would mess up my opportunity for this intense training I start this fall. So I’m lost on what to do exactly? What do y’all think? Please no disrespect but I do want honesty.