Guy [21M] I've [21F] been talking to for a month might be ghosting me
Just looking for advice on what the best next step would be here.
I met a guy on Hinge about a month ago and we’ve been talking consistently since matching. We were both busy when we first met as he was covering extra shifts at work and I was in the middle of test week. So a week and a half into messaging we squeezed in a date, so that we could atleast meet each other.
We ended up having dinner together (not an ideal dirst date in either of our opinions) and stayed talking until the restaurant closed. Whilst it was awkward at points due to nerves I thought we both had a lovely evening.
Since then we’ve continued messaging throughout the day, sending each other Instagram videos, talking about shared interests, etc. We also discussed plans for a second date once our schedules calmed down.
Recently I asked when he’d be free for date two, and we agreed on mini golf. He said weekends were difficult for the next couple of weeks but that he could do a weekday instead. I said that worked for me and asked him a follow-up question about a game he’d mentioned.
That conversation happened Friday evening, and I haven’t heard from him since, which is unusual compared to how frequently we normally talk.
What’s generally considered the best etiquette? It is an option to follow up after a couple of days of silence, or leave the conversation where it is.
I do quite like him, and definitely have a small crush but if he's not interested I would rather not make a fool of myself.