u/Feisty_Bet_1598

prolly slept with 15-20 girls for the one time. one relationship that i ended after 6 months.

what does it say about me if i always find myself hooking up, but never getting in relationships... i literally hate hookups, i avoid them now bc they kill my soul and im not even rly into sex like that anymore- i dont put it on a pedastool.

i mean ive done some deviant stuff that alot of guys would consider cool, like sleeping with some pretty attractive older women when i was a teen- but still , idc ab that.

basically, i am way more confident in my ability to hook up w/ an attractive woman 15+ yrs my senior, or getting a ONS, then i am a relationship-and i wanna fix that. i do have adhd. 90% of the sex i have has been from OLD, the other 10% being work and bars.

But what if u work in a male dominated field? Everyone I have met, it is either school or work. But lets say u work in a field thats 99% men, what do u do? I have decent success in OLD but i am picking a new career soon. obv u shouldnt pick a career based off dating prospects, but, the thought of pretty much completely eliminating the chance of meeting woman at work (which is a large part of ur life) is kind of daunting.