Is my husband cheating or am I overreacting??
This is a photo of his exported data from messenger under the context of “secret messages” so if you know how to read this or make this make sense please help… So my husband and I have been back to my home town for a few days. He’s been super distant and supposedly picked up a side job without me knowing all of a sudden mowing so he was at a bunch of random houses. He’s just been me a really bad feeling because he wouldn’t answer the phone and even at work everyday he always calls me at least every 2 hours. I decided I was gonna do a deep search on his messenger since I haven’t ever and I just had a feeling something wasn’t right. Barely texting me, then out of nowhere at night he’s blowing me up telling me how much he misses me and wants to get my nails done. Then he changed it up again said he was gonna go out to a bar and have some drinks, so I said “yeah me and my sister were actually planning on doing that tonight too” jokingly and he just straight up started attacking me with his words. Like a flipped switch and then hung up on me. Didn’t hear back from him for another several hours and I have barely texted him today. I tried to call him to say goodnight and he hasn’t answered the phone. I called me friend to have her take me to his grandmas house where he’s staying to see if I could see his car there, she was drinking though and talked me out of it saying it’s not worth it to be petty even if he isn’t there what is that gonna do to my mental health. I agreed and now I’m just having a hard time sleeping just not understanding what to do or how to get past this. Gonna keep you guys updated but I’d really appreciate if you could help me rn…