u/Feisty_Travel_838

Ok so I am a trans guy and I was talking with my mom and she (they??? They.) were talking about how they didn’t get why I wanted to be a guy and use he/him pronouns when they/them was an option. I tried being like “well go would you feel if someone used he/him pronouns for you” and my mom responded that it would be fine??? And that they think most societal problems would disappear if everyone used they/them pronouns???? And then my mom said if they knew what nonbinary was when they were in collage they probably would’ve “been that” but my mom thinks they are too old now. So 1. HUH???? 2. How do I help my mom know they aren’t too old for anything 3. Any recommendations on readings that might like,,,kickstart that journey of self discovery?