a few questions about alexithymia
Hello, Reddit!
So, let's start with this. I need to learn as much as possible about how to behave with people with this disorder (?) (in my case, with my boyfriend). I need advice from the same people as me.
It's not that it's difficult for me to communicate with him, I just feel... that he doesn't care about me, even though I read about it, but I need to know in detail how to communicate with such people.
I need advice, reminders. But not at the level of "don't ask him for his feelings" because I already know that. How can I make him feel comfortable?
I don’t know what to do in this situation, because I didn’t know this, he always laughed with me, consoled me, but at some point he... became a robot?
He didn't realize that he had alexithymia ; it was supported by specialists. Just give me some advice on how I can make his life better.
Thank you all in advance! Upd 1: At 7 pm he will return home, I will add news. Last update : Guys, thank you for your help and advice. I am sincerely grateful to all of you . but I have to tell you some sad news, at least for me. He left me. Without swearing, without anything. He just left and said that he didn’t want to hurt me and lie to me.