u/Few-Alarm3009

He has a gf.

He has a gf.

i posted here literally yesterday or the day before about a crush i had on this guy and trying to work up the courage to talk to him but thats not an issue anymore because HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND.

i am so lucky and found this out BEFORE ever talking to him so i can save myself the embarrassment but holy cow this always happens to me.

like the last 2 guys i’ve had an interest in have all had girlfriends and idk what the hell im doing that this keeps happening. its so frustrating like when is it MY TURNN. and to make it worse she’s way prettier than i am. like she is GORGEOUS. i hate the way i instantly compared myself to her and that i think she wins in pretty much every way.

ugh idk i just found out rn and i needed to just vent bc im sad and annoyed and pissed. not at him or her but at myself because i just always do this and i just dont feel like i’m ever going to actually find someone because everyone i find attractive or interesting is taken. i REFUSE to ever get between a relationship so i just have to move on.

does this happen to anyone else? how the hell do i stop this from happening?!??? i don’t want to use dating apps but everyone i meet is in a relationship!!

anyway just wanted to rant or vent or whatever bc im frustrated and sad rn. thanks for everyone giving me advice on my last post, i’ll take it in the future but it wont be anytime soon or with this specific guy :((

u/Few-Alarm3009 — 17 days ago