Fiancé refused drug test
My financé and I have been together about a year and a half. We have a two month old baby together I knew about his past drug addiction(cocaine) that he admitted to within a month of us dating and about three weeks ago. He admitted to me that he has been taking pills more particularly Perc’s and Dilaudid for about two years now and that about a week prior to him telling me he stopped taking them cold Turkey & started smoking a weed vape which he said smoking weed helped him quit about 10 years ago when he was on the same drugs, and that he was struggling and wanted me to know and asked me for help. So me being me I told him I don’t like it, but I’m glad he told me and that I would help him under one condition - that he agreed to take a drug test whenever I ask him to. So it’s been about 3 1/2 weeks since he told me and he came over on Friday for the weekend and on Saturday I asked him to give me a urine sample for the drug test I wanted to do and he refused, said he wouldn’t do it until later when he felt comfortable and that I shouldn’t force him to do it when I want and that I should have told him that I want one and let him decide when he gives it to me whether it be in 15 minutes three hours, etc.. now the night went on the next day went on and then he left Monday morning without giving me a urine sample. He called me on Monday afternoon after he was done work and asked if he could come back and I said no and he asked why and I said I think you know why and he hung up on me. Over that same weekend I asked him if he fell off the waggon and after multiple times of me asking, he finally admitted that someone had given him half a perc and that he took it. But he still refused the drug test, which is kind of confusing to me because if you’re going to admit that you took half a perc why won’t you take the drug test? I asked him multiple times to take the drug test and he started to get mad at me. It’s like they say the only time someone refuses to take a drug test is when they know they’re going to fail that drug test and in my situation it scares me because if he told me he took half a perc and won’t take the drug test and that tells me he has taken other drugs, possibly worse drugs(not sure they get worse), and doesn’t want me to find out about it. Help!!!