Should I tell my mom about her biological family
My grandparents didn’t tell my mother and uncle that they were adopted and not blood related until they were in their mid 30s. My uncle has no children and my mother had all of us by then. My grandparents have already passed but I think they still feel some sort of betrayal because our grandparents were somewhat close to their respective families and didn’t tell them who they were.
I was gifted an ancestory test a couple of years ago and just used it to see where my dna traces back to regionally. But with my mother approaching her 60’s and no medical history to go off of. I’ve been reaching out to those who share dna with me to figure out if there’s anything to be wary of.
If I do manage to find a family tree of sorts for my mother, should I tell her about it? She can get pretty emotional when it comes to family matters and I don’t want to make my uncle feel out of place either.
Edit 1: My mother knows I have taken it and I’ve showed her where my dna traces back to. But neither of us has expressed the desire to look for relatives before