Sorry if this is a stupid question but is it normal for my penis to kind of ache during sex? It isn’t painful but it doesn’t happen when I masturbate. I lost my virginity to my girlfriend a month ago and pretty much each time I have sex with her it happens
Is it normal/what is it?
I'm 19 male. My girlfriend(21F) and I tried having sex for the first time (both virgins) but I couldn't get my penis inside her. I got my tip inside and that’s it. My girlfriend said she felt a bit of pressure and stretching and it was a bit uncomfortable (not painful tho) when I probably had about half my tip in. Then I got all of my tip in but I couldn't get anymore in then as, 1 it felt like I would have to like force it in and 2 because when I tried my girlfriend said it felt like she might tear. So we stopped and just we started just doing hand/mouth stuff.
We want to try and do PIV agains but we don't know what we were doing wrong. We were trying in missionary position, did around 30 minutes of foreplay + teasing each other most of the day. My girlfriend was very wet and said she felt ready.
Any advice? Better position? Better angle to try and insert? All suggestions welcome