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So LO is about 4.5 months. We are still fully contact napping and bedsharing. SOMETIMES I can lay her in bed at night for about 45 minutes but I’m usually exhausted so I go to bed too. How are people making time for intimacy? I think I’m emotionally and physically ready but I just don’t see it happening logistically anytime soon lol. She can entertain herself in her playpen for about 10 minutes alone🙃
I’m not looking to rush baby’s process but maybe more so that others have survived this part? Also to be clear- my husband isn’t putting any pressure on the situation. I was the first to bring it up and he brought it up today just to check in.

Just wanted to share that at a lactation appt baby and I went to yesterday (she’s 4 months) the LC said she’s the happiest baby she’s seen in a while and I attribute it to the cosleeping, contact naps and all the nurturing parenting we’ve been fortunate to be able to do♥️