AITJ for wearing a swimsuit that I was comfortable in ?
So I am currently a crossdresser who is trying to explore myself and trying to figure out if I am really transgendered or not. I often wish that I was a girl or woman so that I can wear female attire all day and everyday. I feel frustrated and jealous that I cannot wear stuff freely like all other cis gendered women. One thing that I wanted to do freely is to be able to wear a woman's swimsuit out to the ocean or a swimming hole. I went to a swimming hole recently and I decided to wear a woman's swimsuit to go swimming around. I got to the place and there was no one there at first and so things were fine until I went back to the shore which was 2 hours later and there was a mini crowd at the park consisting of maybe like 10 people max. There was an old woman who just stared intensely at me in disgust as I was walking back up to my picnic table where all of my stuff is. Knewing that people were probably upset at my bikini styled attire, I grabbed a pair of shorts and slipped into immediately. As I did, a lady a Caucasian lady walked up to me and said "I know the owner of this park and I'll get you banned if you were to wear this outfit to here again. There are children here and your exposing yourself to people.". I don't get how am I even exposing myself as there was nothing hanging out. I was sure that I was fully covered as I had a friend with me when I went and bought the swimsuit at the store and she said that it fitted me correctly. My new friend is a person who my therapist introduced me to. The lady told one of my family members who was with me about what I was wearing and now everyone's upset at me. My brother called me an asshole and jerk for wearing that to the place. Am I the jerk for wearing what made me felt comfortable ?