u/Few_Beautiful_5321

Are certain “bad” behaviours just part of being a man? A friend recently told me that they felt that they were regretfully “just being a man” when engaging in bad behaviours. I struggle to find any men in my extended family who are all around “good” men. There’s always something they struggle with, mainly fidelity, sometimes aggression. I asked my 60 year old aunty if she’s met any good men in her life and was met with an instant “no.”

Do you feel like it’s a struggle to be “good”?