r/MenAreNotIntoWomen

My 29F husband 31M said to me yesterday that I don’t do enough around the house and that I could be doing more. This was after he asked if the patio box that holds couch cushions still had water in the bottom of it, I told him yes it does I completely forgot about it. He proceeded to make snide comments and said I’m home all day I have time to do these things.
For context I’m the primary childcare for our one year old son and I was also diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer back in March. Thankfully I don’t have any physical side effects from chemo but emotionally and mentally it’s very draining. We’ve been married for two years, together for 7.

Later he apologized, and I told him that i feel really angry and hurt. I told him that our house is pristine and often my days if I’m not cleaning or caring for our son I’ve been preparing my will, obituary and making arrangements for when I die someday. Hopefully I’ll live a long time but I also cherish the time with our son in the
present, I don’t want to miss anything.

I honestly feel at a loss. I don’t understand how he can be so insensitive and I feel totally unsupported in the struggle that has been this cancer diagnosis.
What would you do or advice would you give?

I’m 20m and I kinda agree. I myself can’t feel any romantic attraction to women for a lot of reasons and experiences (only one night stands for me now lol). If you had to guess why would you think a lot of Gen Z men are becoming more misogynistic?

Why men are so jealous of women these days?

Notice how the tall, attractive guys are usually calm, sweet, and gentlemen, while so many short guys are always raging, angry, and hating. They take all that anger out on women, but the real issue isn’t women,it’s that they can’t come to terms with being short, so they project their frustration onto women instead.

I haven't seen people talking about this and it's a bit weird, I'm just curious why there's a lot of videos or jokes about it

Are there any men out there who genuinely want to get to know us and fall in love with us? Or are they just interested in our bodies, or trying to show us off to have a cool social media profile? I sometimes wonder what it is that they want.

The way we get disrespected and just have to put up with it because at the end of the day, even after standing up for ourselves nothing really changes, is really frustrating.

Do men actually believe hypergamy is real, that is the least real thing I've ever seen in my life.

Women have never stripped men's right to vote

Women have never condemned men to a life of thankless servitude

Women have never dethroned a king for not having a queen

Women have never mutilated a man so "he can stay pure"

Women have never sent men rape threats

Women have never made men feel scared to be walk alone

Women have never not trusted a sick man and called his symptoms delusion

Women have never beaten, tortured, and murdered a man for having a mistress

All men have for women is obsession they confuse for love, and ownership they confuse for respect

Yet it is women who are mocked and belittled for "not loving men the way men love women" for if women loved men the way men "love" women, men would tear down countries to have their old ways back

Like seriously? At first you might think “why do those girls go on the podcasts just to get shit on?” But then I found out that they actually get a lot of conversions off of appearing on those podcasts.

THE SAME GUYS WHO ARE WATCHING THAT CONTENT AND HATING ON THEM ARE ALSO BUYING THAT SAME CONTENT!

Are they all circle jerking eachother? Why do these people openly complain about women to the other people in the community and then go behind everyone’s backs and subscribe to the same girls?

This isn’t an opinion but a fact. Men are naturally pedophiles. I feel like I’m going crazy the way I’m the only person who has enough commen fucking sence to see this. 94% of pedophiles are men. The other 6 percent of woman are not pedophiles. Just women who happen to fall for men under age but they don’t actively seek younger people EVER. Woman like their men bigger older and violent and men like their women small submissive, hairless, obedient and weak. There is so much more that goes into this but I’m sick and tired of people acting like I’m crazy for knowing this when your just too stupid too see what’s in-front of you. I know for a fact if you try to argue I’m wrong your either a woman attracted to older men or your a man attracted to little girls. Stop acting like the sky is fucking red when everyone knows it’s blue.

Every question I ask seems to get the same answer: sex, sex, sex. It’s rare to find someone who actually uses critical thinking

I’m genuinely trying to understand men’s psychology and behavior so that when I do find a partner, I’ll know how to treat him in a healthy, respectful, and supportive way I’m looking for thoughtful insights, not for everything to be reduced to sex

I spent 45 minutes doing a flawless skin tint, subtle concealer, tightlining, and a nude lip for brunch. We get in the car, he looks at me and says, "See? You look so much prettier when you don't paste all that junk on your face" I almost drove us into a ditch. Why do they think natural means we just woke up looking like a Victoria's Secret model?