r/MenAreNotIntoWomen

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I genuinely want to talk about something I’ve noticed on TikTok lately. I’ve seen a lot of bisexual males whining that straight women won’t date them because they’re bisexual, and then calling those women biphobic for having that preference. Personally, I think that’s bs. Like this whole conversation really has exposed how a lot of bisexual men feel entitled to women's time and bodies and view any woman who refuses to allow him access to those things is somehow morally wrong, which doesn’t make sense since majority of them prefer males as it is. What’s really interesting is that there’s gay males that won’t even date bi males, But if some women decide to set their own boundaries and preferences, suddenly we have to "unpack the biphobia “ it's alarming how everyone thinks they should be entitled to women's bodies.

What are your thoughts about this topic on TikTok?

I often feel the urge

I personally dont think I could bring myself to do it, and it sucks because most attractive men are either gay or only see me as a slab of meat and are not actually into me, just the thought of having sex with me. At the same time, I wouldn’t force myself to be with someone who I feel no attraction towards, tbh I would rather die single.

I saw an interesting take today proclaiming this because incels treat women the same way as they do men, unlike virtually every other social group in our modern society, and I found this interesting. Ik a lot of people like to act like incels are all raging misogynists, which I think is dumb. I’m curious to see how this poll plays out.

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Just saw a post on social media from some woman named Jen Hamilton stating "right now im of the belief that all men should start out in jail and earn their way out"

Like genuinely dont understand why so much hate on men? The new wave feminism is insane. Women earn and dont need a men anymore, which i get. But like is that all we are to them? I understand and empathize with women who go thru shitty situations with shitty men, but like.....are all men shitty?

Ive seen similar other posts across insta and tiktok and apparently this is all women talk about - how terrible men are and that they aren't needed anymore. I can only imagine how this compounds the male loneliness epidemic and furthers the difficulties in the dating scene for both genders, but men in particular as even the good ones aren't approaching women anymore and choosing peace or singledom.

Men, based on these trends, what do you suspect the trajectory looks like for us in society in 10, 20 or 50 yrs?

I think this has already been established on here, but i hate incels because they pretend that they're DESPERATE for ANY girl thats their loksmatch. but even if a girl is pretty or nice or socially ''femenine'' as long as shes not east asian or white or latina. they block! or act as if dark skinned south asian girls and black girls are far too below them to even consider as a dating option. there have been neumerous times where i text a guy online and we have a good conversation and then it gets a bit flirty. so then ill ask what their type is and they say what most men say ''it doesnt matter what you look like, i value honesty and morals blah blah'' so then i have to ask something more... blunt. i ask do you like black girls and theyll say ''ive never done it'' or literally just block me. ocassionally it will be a drawn out talking stage and then they eventually block me.

Everything you think a man can give you is what you can give yourself. Even more and better. Dating men is just not that great. You don't need them.

Are certain “bad” behaviours just part of being a man? A friend recently told me that they felt that they were regretfully “just being a man” when engaging in bad behaviours. I struggle to find any men in my extended family who are all around “good” men. There’s always something they struggle with, mainly fidelity, sometimes aggression. I asked my 60 year old aunty if she’s met any good men in her life and was met with an instant “no.”

Do you feel like it’s a struggle to be “good”?

I'm asking genuinely. I am starting to think so many guys are often more physically attracted to guys than women

Literally what is in the air. I’ve been in these fandoms for years and some of the shit i see was NOT happening 6-8 years ago. Especially with anime and games. Women can’t even exist in these spaces, even when the fandom isn’t male dominated or you can tell it was targeted towards women. Like shit i used to be able to look at comment sections without the word foid in my face every single fucking second oh my god. like mind ur business fuck

is there a reason why men love to waste women’s time ? like every man i’ve been romantically involved with has wasted my time or done things to me for no reason when they could’ve just been honest , im really confused right now . why do they do this ? part of me believes they thrive off us being in pain .

even looking back to the best relationship i supposedly had with a man it was still terrible , i just
felt happy because i experienced it for the first
time .

i don’t think they are truly into us or ever were and that we’re just an outlet for them to use and take advantage of us as much as possible .

Why else are men only attracted to plastic looking women? Women who are super smooth and hairless with a caked face of makeup, plastic surgery, high heels, tight ass dress, etc. It‘s like to be attractive to men you have to be as uncomfortable as possible. They don’t give a shit about natural faces don’t be fooled. When men say they like natural women what they mean is that they like the top 5% of women who are naturally stunning. Otherwise you have to spend a lot of time and money just for men to consider you. Men on the other hand at worst just need to be fit and have a good skincare routine (which isn’t even a requirement for most woman apparently). The bar for men is in hell, the bar for women is in heaven, completely opposite standards.

Being with women in a close relationship exposes you to the worst parts of daily life—periods, bad moods, bad smells from periods, and rotting gas , stinky fart. Nobody healthy wants to deal with that unless they have a severe kink. That's why relationships should be at a distance or have clear boundaries to avoid all those horrible things as most as possible . I prefer women at their highlight reels, which is why keeping things separate is the only way to avoid the gross reality nobody wants to see or hear.
Can be worse than ww…💀

Take away sexual attraction, and a lot of what people call “interest in women” disappears

For many men, the fascination is heavily driven by attraction fantasy dating sex, and the possibility of sex Remove that entire layer and ask yourself

Would you still find women as a group inherently more interesting than men?

Not individual women you personally know. I mean women as women.

My unpopular opinion: for a lot of men, the answer would be no.

Women can want tall, emotionally mature, financially stable, fit, fashionable, or extroverted men even when they don’t meet those standards themselves—and nobody seems to find that strange. But when a man wants a woman with a low body count or a modest sexual history, suddenly it’s called misogynistic. Why the double standard?