The worst of it is that almost all of them are partnered. Men are so badly into women they can tolerate the hate of their entire gender.
This is what a permabanned account looks like. A fixed profile pic with no eyes on it. It is a barely perceptible sign but once you learn the pattern you start to pay attention to it and can easily notice this sub has an alarming share of such accounts, especially in older posts. Some of them, like this one, were terminated in less than 24 hours.
If you open top posts of all time and start lurking you'll notice that around 30% of accounts in the comment sections were permabanned. Consider e.g. this most-upvoted post of all time: https://www.reddit.com/r/WomenAreNotIntoMen/comments/1o2bnmy/the_cycle_must_be_broken/
It's unclear to me why this sub still remains alive after so many contributors got banned, however it is obviously under unwanted surveillance. It was reported multiple times for "misogyny" (e.g. https://www.reddit.com/r/BanFemaleHateSubs/comments/1rwfehf/womenarenotintomen_is_full_of_misogyny_and/ ) which is especially hilarious because all actually sexist posts are quickly taken down by mods, and the majority of content here is simple reposting of what women say themselves. As a side note, I've noticed that women who claim to disagree with WANIM tend to hate both men and our public discussions around their hate.
Reddit deploying their new AI moderation system may have something to do with these bans, too. Maybe it develops some sort of a digital portrait of your account and labels you as a "resentful inkwell" and administers a ban. I therefore urge yall to be very cautious with your words here, don't bring unneeded attention to this sub and your account because it may not end well. Probably participating in "neutral" subreddits would also help as an additional layer of defense.
Why if you ask a man what he searches for in a partner, 99% of the time he will answer “I’d want her to be into me”; and you’ll never hear from him some buIIshit like “she has to be 6ft tall and make 100k”?
Why women are so materialistic when it comes to romance and love is never on the table?
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I'm asking genuinely. I am starting to think so many guys are often more physically attracted to guys than women
Even their approach to dating is based on materialism, which is why its a big deal to them if a man doesn't pay. Because they're materialistic, they equate payment with genuine interest. Many women also seem to lack a deeper sense of self and are content to go along with the status quo. They are easily swayed by social norms and trends and have little interest in questioning or challenging them. They generally just play the role they've been conditioned to play by their parents and society without any real awareness or agency.
They tend to be more materialistic and status oriented than men and they're biologically and psychologically wired to seek out resources for themselves and their offspring through men. This makes it so that they tend to just view men as a means to an end and generally have no problem with using them in different ways, and they disguise this by saying they want a man who is generous, while not really being generous themselves until a certain point when they're sure that they can consistently and reliably use a man. So even their generousity tends to be transactional.
Society also tends to coddle and protect them from having to face harsh realities, including about themselves, which is why many seem to lack self-awareness.
I asked out a coworker last thursday. She said no and that she had a boyfriend. I said sorry and that I wouldnt insist again. Then today tuesday she came to work since then (its normal) and she said hello and I replied hello, cause she enters the office next to me.
Then, I wasnt expecting this at all, she told my boss and my boss just talked to me now and said that he "activated a protocol" and that in the next days they will do a meeting to know what to do. I have no idea what she told him. Idk who will be in the meeting, I just have 2 bosses, and there are 2 administration women and 1 guy, nobody else except field workers.
My boss says they will most likely give me a warning, but at the same time he told me he never had to do this, so he doesnt know, so they might fire me. And even if they dont fire me, if they tell the others this is a fucking stigma if they know now or in the future.
On top of that, I have to get a mortgage in a few months or Ill lose the place where I live and Ill have nowhere to go, and without a job I wont be able to get it. And they dont give it if you have a less than 1 year contract...
I just want to cry. I want to go home and dont come here anymore. Im at work. I dont want to work or be here, or be in the same universe as that woman. What type of person does this? Just fuck the life of someone because asked you out and told you that he wont bother you again?
I feel so insecure. Its so fucking ironic. I literally did nothing wrong. Even if they dont fire me, I feel so insecure, I dont have any morale anymore and I dont know what todo.
update1: my boss didnt come today. its pretty usual. the girl comes 2 days a week, yesterday and tomorrow. idk if she will come tomorrow. i was thinking of taking a vacation day since my fucking brain is always thinking about how to fix or make better something, but i thought against it just for a chance that my boss shows up and decides what to do finally.
he has 2 options:
- fire me. pay 3000€ and forget this ever happened
- not fire me. have this "problem" there permanently. i would always be there and he knows that "im conflictive". also the office is very small, but 2 floors. last day she was on the top floor (we were on the bottom) but there isnt really room for her, so if she stays there for long other will start asking questions and if a permanent worker switches places with her who only works 2 times a week, they are really going to start asking questions. either way, i would always be there, the rapist. i mean, why even pretend they dont think this about me.
the answer is obvious.
i have been thinking and i dont really care anymore. this life isnt worth it. there is no point in keep living. this might be a good thing for me to finally end it.
I don't hate men, but I get why many women do. My father has many flaws, but being a misogynist is not one of them. He has been a human and civil rights activist since the 80's, in a very misogynistic and violent country. He's a very masculine, heterosexual man, a gun and car enthusiast, prolific in many martial arts, likes fishing and soccer, dad gut and dad beard. And against all odds, against the way he was raised and the environment around him, he stood (and still stands) up for women.
He was raised in a very traditional Catholic family, amidst constant physical abuse by an extremely misogynistic father. Despite being the youngest, as the only surviving boy he was raised to believe he was better than his many sisters, but also that the standards for him were higher than anyone else. Any mistake meant yells and fists, since the young age of 4 or so.
My grandfather was beloved in his city. Respected for his work, well known for his charity, a small town Godfather. Priests praised him, the mayor was his friend, townsfolk would gather in the patio of his house for folkloric parties. Coming from extreme poverty (the type that involve no running water, no bathroom, no job, no food), his rise to beloved community member and successful businessman made him a hero. He was my father's hero and his biggest enemy.
As they moved into a wayyy bigger city in search for opportunity due to an economic crisis, my father started meeting new people, different people. Punks, communists, homosexuals, feminists, in a time all of that was either illegal or heavily persecuted in out country. His father, forever the gregarious and visionary soul, became even more successful. But he couldn't succeed in making his son to his image, so the abuse got worse. Every male friend with long hair, every gathering with weird people, every disagreement at the dinner table was a reason to berate him, kick him out of home, beat him up. My father loved him, worshipped him even, but couldn't agree with him. Alcohol and drugs became just a natural escape.
Fast forwards and my father becomes... Well, my father. Three children, a boy and two girls, the love of his life. The drugs and alcohol were still there: trauma he inflicted on us and our mother, but that he has done the effort to make up for it after finding sobriety. I remember once a conversation I overheard as my parents hosted a few friends. One of his male friends said to him, as I sat on his lap: "You are unlucky for having two girls, you raise them with love and care just for them to end up being defiled by wretches like us". My father told me to get up and leave, as he berated the man for saying such things in front of children, and for disrespecting him: "talk about yourself, I'm not like you, and because of that my girls won't fall for men like you".
My father taught me and my siblings martial arts. He supported me on my love for books and sports, and tried to not be too disappointed when my brother couldn't care less about fighting (he made it up by being an excellent academic, the smartest of the trio of troubles). When my brother got diagnosed with bipolar and I did too, he was kind and supportive, and pursued his own diagnosis too. "Shit, it's fault you two are crazy, I'm crazy too", he once joked. When my sister decided to work on design, he put her art on his facebook for the whole world to see, beaming in pride. While I am modest and cover myself from neck to toe, my sister is the most beautiful and fashionable woman in the world and she knows that. Once when asked if he was ok with his daughter wearing a miniskirt, he said "What I'm not ok with is you talking like that about my child". My sister is cool, charismatic and confident, and he's not letting anyone take that from her as long as he's alive. She also can fight almost as good as me, and that's on him too.
My father has one son. My dear dumbass of a brother. As we are twins, we were born prematurely, which lead to many health issues. He came out with a minor facial deformity, too small to prevent him for living a normal life, but enough to make him not exactly the handsomest of the bunch. My brother, just like my father, is surrounded by friends. Male friends, female friends, communists, punks, queers, feminists. He's also not lonely, nor has ever complained of male loneliness that hits our generation. He's my best friend, my buddy in crime and in feats. "I like your brother because he makes me feel safe", said a girl once as he helped her get home while too drunk, without accepting her advances. People love him, and I can see why.
To this day, at the ripe old age of 27, when I visit I can cuddle on my father's lap and talk about my day. I can play videogames with him, talk politics, ask him for advice and he'll give it. He holds my hand to cross the street, and I hate it because I moved whole countries alone, I can cross the street on my own! But I let him do it. He treats my trans friends with respect and proper pronouns -- he's known for it, known for being the cool trans inclusive dad. He reads books on social issues, learns about disadvantages communities, asks questions when he's confused or in doubt. He also goes to the stadium and screams his heart out when our terrible team wins, and to church for Sunday mass every week, no exceptions. His jiu jitsu friends know he will reproach them if they act inappropriately towards the young women and girls at the gym. The girls high five him when he teaches them new things.
My dad is fucking awesome, and trust me when I say that I'm deeply aware of his flaws. But he's a safe man who raised another safe man and two intelligent and unapologetically free women (well, my sister is smart as hell, I like to think I am too), and he does therapy and tries to be a better person everyday. I don't hate men because I have my father, my brother, and many other amazing men in my life. But God, it's not my fault that you suck and I might hate you. And if you are the type of man a daughter, wife, sister, coworker, etc. are unlucky to have in their lives, there might be a reason why they say "I hate (all) men". Because she didn't have a man that wasn't fucking hateable like you in their lives. I am LUCKY, many (if not most) aren't. Be better if you don't want to ask "boohoo, why do women hate men so much?" You just suck.
Edit for clarification, I'm Trans-masc and I'm in a long term relationship, I just seem to need more compliments and validation from everyone else too.
I'm extremely happy with ALL the changes I have received while being on T. I'm happy with my hair, I'm happy with my top surgery results. Euphoric. But... I am having a horrible time adjusting to being 'ugly'... being invisible to strangers... being undesirable to both men and women...
I think the main thing is I no longer have tits, I wish that being happy with myself was enough but I cannot seem to get past how little attention I receive from peers and strangers. I don't apear sexy or pretty to people. No one comments on my appearance at all anymore. Even if I prompt it myself people seem uncomfortable with the fact I think I look good, as if they highly disagree but don't want to be rude.
People mention how I had nice tits in a way that sounds like "you used to be hot".
I don't know... I just miss being treated like I'm hot. People seem afraid or unwilling to admit trans men or trans mascs are sexy. That or I am delusional and I'm absolutely chopped and without tits I have nothing to distract from it😭
First of all, notice how OP didn't even specified that's "female hypergamy" as this concept can theoretically be applied to anyone. Yet women's reaction was instant.
And most importantly, note how they didn't even try to debunk the premise. If they don't agree with it, they could have politely contradict it by providing counter-examples, e.g. how they admire guys shorter than them or how they are happy to provide for their stay-at-home husband. Instead, they immediately proceeded to insults, labeling and mocking ("incel", "touch grass", etc.). And this all is in a sub tailored for asking any kind of questions without fear of getting rude dismissive answers.
This behavior is in a sense similar to a spy being exposed. Women don't want to see their tactics being talked about, even when no offense is involved. They want men to be blissfully unaware of it.
Very depressing footage tbh
