Me and my boyfriend have been happy for a while (since September 2025). He came out as trans recently too, which is fine because I'm biromantic and I support him <3
However, lately he's been more clingy. I didn't mind it at first but it's only gotten worse. I tell him no politely all the time. I'll list some example situations below.
It first happened when he came round for the second time. The first time he came over, we made out and I quite enjoyed it. However, the second time he came over, I didn't want to. This was my first time really telling him no, so I just kinda awkwardly shook my head. I then told him no politely a few more times. Against my wishes, I made out with him anyway. We nearly ended up having sex. I was super uncomfortable.
About 2 months ago, he sent one of our friends across the field, not telling them what he wanted me for, so I walked all the way over. Turns out he just wanted me to sit on his lap in front of our friends, in an open field where other kids could see. I obviously said no and walked away that time in my anger. He never apologized.
This Sunday (2 days ago) we all went to the park as a friend group. There were littler kids, a few kids our age and parents. He was super insistent on going on the field and cuddling. I told him no. Still though, he kissed me and hugged me throughout our day out with friends.
Literally yesterday was my reason for writing this. We were at club with the same friends we went to the park with and 4 other girls we got to know. I was super overwhelmed at the time, so I sat in the corner to self regulate. He hovered still, asking of we could cuddle in the corner where I was sat. I told him no. When I was having a conversation, he came over and asked to sit on my lap in front of the girl we just met. (+ My friend). I told him no again.
At the end of club, he was crying because I was "ignoring" him.
Should we break up? I feel like yesterday was my last straw. By the way, I have told him explicitly, multiple times, that I don't like PDA. However, if I break up with him, he'll cry and make ME the villain. He also sits next to me in about 2 lessons which will make it really awkward. What do I do? (Sorry for this being so long, I haven't really been able to tell anyone about the situation, so I needed it out of my system.)