How long does it take you to decide whether you like someone romantically?
I think I’m talking to a girl (she’s definitely an ENTJ, I had her take the Sakinorva test) and everything seems to be moving very fast.
We met on Facebook and then switched to WhatsApp. Early on, she was quick to tell me that she finds me funny, interesting, and intelligent. After our first video call, right before we ended it, she told me she was really happy with the kind of person I am. She even gave me a whole summary of her “assessment” of me based on what I’d said and what she had observed.
Since then, she checks in on me frequently, asks about my day, compliments my skills, and during our video calls she’s very talkative and openly shares personal things about her family, goals, and future plans.
I don’t think she’s naive or impulsive. If anything, it feels very deliberate. Maybe this is her way of showing trust and interest?
But at the same time… we’ve only known each other for about a month.
So that brings me back to my original question: how long does it usually take you guys to decide whether you want to pursue someone romantically?