u/Few_Hamster59

So I underwent verbal and emotional abuse for a couple of years (since we got married). I told him how unhappy I was a few times and how he needed to change or I'd leave but he always just doubled down and made it worse.

I finally got the courage to leave in march and I've found out he's been telling people I just upped and left and blindsided him and that he's really shocked. I've had no contact from any joint friends or his family which just makes me think they all think I'm avoidant and left for no reason. Again, no accountability which is a reason why I left.