AITAH for telling my friend’s boyfriend she kissed me?
I (23F) have been friends with this girl, I’ll call her Mia (24F), since high school. About a year ago Mia started dating this guy (25M) and they’ve honestly seemed really happy together.
The problem is over the last few months things between me and Mia have started feeling… weird.
Mia got really clingy with me out of nowhere. Like constantly wanting to hang out alone, getting annoyed if I brought other friends, drunk texting me saying I was her “favourite person,” stuff like that. I honestly thought maybe Mia was just going through something emotionally.
Then last weekend a bunch of us went out drinking and I ended up staying at Mia’s apartment because it got too late to drive home.
Nothing weird happened at first. We were literally just talking in Mia’s room when Mia suddenly started crying about how confused Mia felt about life and the relationship. I was trying to comfort Mia and then Mia kissed me.
I pulled away immediately.
I’m not judging Mia at ALL for questioning sexuality or anything like that, but Mia literally has a boyfriend and I felt extremely uncomfortable being put in that position.
The next morning Mia begged me not to tell him because Mia said it “didn’t mean anything” and Mia was just drunk and emotional. Mia also kept saying if I told him I’d ruin the relationship and possibly our friendship too.
I felt guilty but I ended up telling him anyway because honestly if I was dating someone I’d want to know.
Well now everything has exploded.
He broke up with Mia, Mia’s telling everyone I betrayed her during a vulnerable moment, and some of our mutual friends think I should’ve just kept it private because technically nothing “really happened.”
But other friends are saying I did the right thing because he deserved honesty.
Now I genuinely don’t know if I overstepped or not because I do feel horrible seeing how devastated Mia is.
AITAH?