how should i go about this? i (19f) got upset with my boyfriend(18m) because he keeps doing things i’ve said make me uncomfortable, like pointing out other women he finds attractive, following girls on instagram just because he thinks they’re hot, and watching porn despite knowing my past trauma around it.
i’ve also been trying to convince myself i’m overreacting and have avoided bringing it up as much, but it’s been building resentment.
i finally told him and said if it continues, i may have to leave, because i don’t feel respected in the relationship. we live together and i don’t want to be controlling or insecure but it feels like shit. is it ok
for me to have set this boundary ?
u/Few_Purple5409 — 15 days ago