I sold my house and purchased one I love. My possession date is 6 weeks from now. My date for vacating my currently house is in two weeks.
My elderly Mom, who I help daily by cooking, shopping, personal care etc., even though I work full time, , lives in a large house alone. She is not a warm and fuzzy Mom; she is somewhat cold. I had assumed (mistake one) that I could stay at her house for the month in between. She told me that I am not welcome because I have a dog. My dog is a good ole girl. It is our family home that my late Dad paid for. My Mom also refused to allow my late brother to stay at her house post cancer treatment. My sisters and I were caring for him; we did not expect her to provide care. I am just really struggling to realize that this cold woman is not attached to any of her grown kids and she never was. She has often expressed the belief that she should not have had so many kids. Am I over-reacting? have asked her, "Which of us would you not have had?" I don't recall any hugs as a child. I have never felt loved by her and she is just getting more and more selfish. : (