Hi cf4cf!
I’ve been lurking here for a while and finally feel ready to throw my hat in the ring.
I’m a Windy City resident with no desire to move yet. Hoping to enjoy Chicago for years to come so someone that also loves it here would be ideal.
I have a somewhat demanding job that is hybrid - although less so recently. I love what I do though so that helps.
Outside of work I’m a homebody and furmom to my cat. He’s in serious need of additional company and cuddles. Pics available upon request!
My hobbies include reading, writing, crocheting, watching documentaries (all kinds!), learning to cross-stitch and sew, the occasional board game or video game, and most recently a good music festival!
I’m pretty much a textbook introvert and am happy to find someone similar-ish. I’m hoping to find someone that also enjoys a mostly quiet and calm home life (with the occasional feline shenanigan) with the occasional adventure. **You will not find me climbing mountains for sport or anything similar. I am decidedly not outdoorsy.
I’m looking for a man no older than 40. Preferably 5’ 10” or taller. I am tall - 5’9”. I’m not hung up on physique and actually tend to like a more dad-bod guy. Not a hard line though! I’ve been hitting the gym recently so someone that is mindful of their health is great. Also, please have some hobbies, I’m so curious as to how people spend their free time and would love some new suggestions!
I am an African American woman so someone that knows and understands my culture would be preferred. I’ve dated all across the spectrum so no preferences there. I’m not interested in hookups - please be looking for a ltr if you reach out.
If you like what you’ve read so far send me message! I also understand physical attraction is a big part of dating so I’ll be happy to trade pics to see if there’s a spark.