I don’t know if my partners toxic or i’m the problem? 22M & 22M
We’ve been together for about 6 months, and i dont even know what to thing anymore. From the start ive just felt like im not good enough for him but recently its been worse than ever. he constantly puts me down, saying shit like im ‘autistic and socially awkward asf’. i was never even diagnosed with autism. I think he thinks i have really thick skin because i never react to it and he says it in such a casual way that its almost like hes not serious and its just a joke. I initially thought this because he also says i have no common sense and am stupid which i never actually thought he meant until recently he said he was genuinely talking to his therapist about how dumb i am. im literally doing a phd but according to
him i have no ‘common sense’ outside of academic smarts. if i make a small mistake like if i cant find the correct carpark at a shopping centre he gets pissed at me. hes constantly irritated by shit that im doing or mistakes that i make. im also apparently terrible at sex (which i will admit im not very good) to which he says we’re not sexually compatible.
im almost at the point of just straight up saying im dont clearly you dont like me so why are you even dating me. ive never felt worse about myself but at the same time i feel like im not good enough to be in a relationship with him nor anybody