u/Final_Consequence904

About 3 months ago now my avoidant ex-girlfriend (F16) broke up with me (M17). She didn’t know how to handle her emotions, she took lots of space, and she didn’t respect me or my boundaries. I was too attached to her to let her go, so when she broke up with me it felt like a breath of fresh air. I am significantly happier now in every way. I blocked her on every social media: her number, IG, Snapchat, everything. I have seen nothing about her life in 3 months and it’s been great. A couple days ago, however, I got a no caller ID from some random person. I picked it up and it seemed like an obvious prank call by some goofy teenage girls. I decided to entertain the call since I was bored, however as the call went on the girls began mentioning personal details of me: songs I’d written and only shared with her, sexual details of me, ect. I knew this was no longer a funny prank call. Another voice spoke in some kind of accent to try and throw me off, it was her. She didn’t speak again but I knew it. I asked the caller how long ago it was since I last spoke to that person who had just spoken. They went on mute, came back and said three months. I quickly left the call.

Why did she do this? I know that girls prank call and make jokes about exes at sleepovers but hadn’t I made it obvious to her I want nothing to do with her? Did she just use this an excuse to hear my voice? She was extremely avoidant and now suddenly she just comes back? Any reassurance or explanation someone could give me?

12 Angry Months

It’s been 3 months, she decided to call