u/Financial-Resident55

[M39, Kerala] Separated | Scientist, agnostic, child-free — looking for something real

[M39, Kerala] Separated | Scientist, agnostic, child-free — looking for something real

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Age: 39

Sex/Gender: M

State: Kerala — Malappuram district

Eating preferences: Flexitarian — mostly vegetarian, but not strictly so.

Drinks/smoke/drugs: Occasional social drinking. No smoking, no drugs.

Religion/religious views: Born into a Hindu household, but personally agnostic. I respect all beliefs as long as they don't impose on others.

Political views: Economically left-leaning, socially libertarian.

Personality type: Introverted with people I've just met, but genuinely open and expressive with those I'm close to.

Career: Scientist working in clinical genomics — working in Trivandrum.

Future plans: Financial independence without the pressure of early retirement — I enjoy my work too much for that. Some travel, meaningful side projects, and staying fit.

Pets: No pets currently, but I love animals — all of them.

Why child free?: I have no plans to have children. It's a considered personal choice, not something I arrived at by default.

Views about sharing responsibilities: No gendered roles. We each lead where we're more capable and support where we're not.

My kind of person: If you enjoy science fiction, follow science and tech news with genuine curiosity, or get excited about a good world cinema recommendation — you're already my kind of person. I don't need someone in the same field, just someone who finds the world genuinely interesting.

Expectations: Kindness, intellectual curiosity, and emotional honesty matter a lot to me. I'm separated from my first marriage, and I'm approaching this with clarity about what I want — not baggage, just honesty. I want someone who is ambitious, has their own identity and financial independence — not because I'm keeping score, but because I find that genuinely attractive. Smoking is a dealbreaker. Ideally looking for someone between 32 and 42. Malayalam-speaking is a nice bonus, but compatibility comes first.

u/Financial-Resident55 — 21 hours ago

[M39, Kerala] Molecular Biologist, agnostic, CF-leaning — looking for something real

Age:39

Sex/Gender: M

State: Kerala

Eating preferences:Flexitarian — mostly vegetarian, but not strictly so.

Drinks/smoke/drugs:Occasional social drinking. No smoking, no drugs.

Religion/religious views:Born into a Hindu household, but personally agnostic. I respect all beliefs as long as they don't impose on others.

Political views:Economically left-leaning, socially libertarian.

Personality type: Introverted with people I've just met, but genuinely open and expressive with those I'm close to.

Career:Scientist working in clinical genomics — cancer diagnostics, hereditary disease testing.

Future plans: Financial independence without the pressure of early retirement — I enjoy my work for that. Some travel, meaningful side projects, and staying fit.

Pets: No pets currently, but I love animals — all of them.

Why child free?:Leaning child-free, though I'm open to an honest conversation about it with the right person. It needs to be a genuine mutual choice, not a default.

Views about sharing responsibilities: No gendered roles. We each lead where we're more capable and support where we're not.

Expectations: Kindness, intellectual curiosity, and emotional honesty matter a lot to me. I want someone who has their own identity and financial independence — not because I'm keeping score, but because I find that genuinely attractive. Ideally looking for someone between 29 and 35. Malayalam-speaking is a nice bonus, but compatibility comes first.

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