Thinking about separation/divorced but need advice please
I am a 30F (HL) married to a 34M (LL) for about 7 years. we have 1 beautiful daughter who is our world. He is a great father, and man. I know he loves me but we don’t match in bed. since we started dating I noticed he wouldn’t stay that hard. there were good and bad times, eventually it improved but his libido has always been low. for the record I am very HL and love creating a connection through intimacy. as years went by I developed depression and I am on lexapro. it lowered my libido and sex happens maybe 1 a month but it’s rarely full sex and only oral instead. he gets soft with penetration and I feel so unwanted, so unhappy and just feel like I am wasting my youth.
however, it breaks my heart feeling like I am destroying my little family. I am not sure how my daughter will do. we don’t have assets so the split should be easy.
This issue has been a constant battle all this years and I communicated these issues every year. his T levels are low but he doesn’t do much to fix it. he now wants to get back into fitness and maybe some medicine to help him last. I don’t know what to do. do I give him a chance or just start loving on or stay and continue to feel undesired, and unwanted. I feel bad for even considering somebody else just for sex to satisfy my needs so I am trying to be transparent with my husband
i would appreciate any advice please