u/Find_me_now_plz

I (18m) have kinda been going through a lot. I have slowly realized that like 95% of my friends have girlfriends. In the past I wasn’t too interested on getting one but now that is has pretty much stagnated me from growing the friendships with most of them. I now want a girlfriend, I got a couple apps I have had them for about 2 months now and it has not been going anywhere.
I think one of my issues is that it might not be the right place. I like more nerdy girls but I haven’t seen like any on the apps. I was wondering if anyone has recommendations for find girls that like video games or anime.

I (18M) would like to find more nerdy people be it online or in person. People with interests in anime and video games preferably but not exclusively. If you have any ideas for places around Southern California or online help would greatly be appreciated.