I, 16F, can’t get my boyfriend, 16M, off. what do I do?
I, 16F, can’t get my boyfriend, 16M, off. Help me please. Okay so in March was the first time I was his junk in person and touched it. Not trying to get him off yet or anything but just ”getting to know” it because I had never seen a penis in person before.
Fast forward to May after many rounds of phone sex and soft touches is when I see it again and actually want to get him off. Before I continue, I want to say that hes never forced me to do anything and I’ve never forced him to do anything either. It’s all consensual. anyway, I touch it and actually try to give him a blow job and go at it for ten minutes, thinking surely he’s gonna ejaculate eventually but he never does. He just stays hard and leaking precum but doesn’t climax or nothing. I don’t think too much of it since i do know he’s used to getting off on his own and i haven’t gotten my technique down yet but I still feel bad because he manages to get me off in 2 minutes by basically just looking at me, which I wish was an understatement.
I’ve been starting to worry if it’s my fault for not being able to make him cum because a couple of days ago, I try my hand at a hand job (no pun intended) and he does tell me what he likes and he even tightens his legs around me just a bit because I was kneeling in front of him but still, he doesn’t ejaculate or anything of the sort. Just majorly hard and still leaking.
What do I do? My mom says it’s because he desensitized himself by watching porn and my friend jokingly says he’s gay but from the way he looks and touches me, he’s not.
why can’t I make him climax and what am I doing wrong and how do I fix it????
update: I FINALLY MADE HIM EJACULATE. took 45 minutes and a load of patience and lube but I did it!!! Thank yall for the advice and yes I tell my mom everything lol. Told her this too when he left.