u/FineTomorrow9216

I want to like it but I don’t.
Maybe it’s because my nervesystem is too used to goon since I’ve been doing it from my early teens till adulthood idk. Recently got a gf which I’ve been having sex with. It gives me zero pleasure. I’m too used to a tight grip and controlling the rhythm. Even though there’s nothing wrong with her being loose or anything, it feels like I wear 5 layers of condoms, in other words I can barely feel anything.

In total I’ve just had sex about 12 times. Still feels like I’m an asexual virgin with no rhythm and stamina. I’ve skipped so many possible relationships because of my problem with sex. I really want it to work this time. I appreciate any help!