AITAH want to separate finances with fiancée
I just finished college. My fiancée who has been working for 6 months has a place, she asked me to move in with her knowing I have essentially 0 funds, and no income. I could’ve chosen to live with my parents for free for the 40 days in between starting my job. after graduating I had about 40 days before starting, but will be making double her income (at 120k). She graciously let me use her card to buy food, get haircut, pay for gas until my job starts, after around 15 days, we had an argument and she unrelatedly threw into my face I was using her card and living off her. She began sending me houses for rent a week later she wanted to move into that would be 50% of our take home income and wouldn’t budge, after 8 months of me begging her to sit down and talk finances with me and where we want to be in 5,10,15 years I had enough. I threatened that I would keep my finances completely separate from hers, I refuse to touch her card again, and I’m thinking of moving home (literally 40min away). Should I have just gotten a part time DoorDash job or something and sucked it up, or am I rightfully upset that the money she said was ours she got upset about being spent. Am I in the right to be frustrated with the fact when I start my job that will be community property and if I had the same reaction it wouldn’t work?