Boyfriend not wanting to do anything
So I have a question so I’ve been with this man for over 1/-1 1/2 years and in the beginning we were all over each other like dogs now he barely wants to have sex and it’s never a casual things it’s like i gotta ask or we plan days to have sex but now even when we do which is rare he just lays there and turns over when I ask and such I’m a top he’s a bottom but now he don’t wanna have sex with me I ask which is stupid cause I shouldn’t have to ask and his answer is either no or had an excuse on why the answer is no if I ask for head it’s an excuse and atp i don’t know what to do he Claims as he gets older he just don’t get horny but I find a Twitter account of him claiming he’s wants to get railed and all this other stuff but when I bring it up it’s always an excuse for everything or he’s like I want that from you but when I’m horny I get shut down and relationships aren’t about sex but I shouldn’t have to wait months until he’s ready to have sex we haven’t done anything in a month and he’d rather me jerk off in the bathroom than him give me head or jerk me off and I just wanna know what should I do and if that’s weird or not I’m tired of using my hand and I’m tired and feeling like I can’t have sex with my own partner because of his excuses or cause he isn’t horny when I found that account or their guys older than him having sex almost everyday and then I think if he was with someone else would they have sex often or would he make the first move on someone else it’s just a lot running through my mind and I can’t sleep