I’m scared of being disowned
I’m 21f Hispanic in college, also the oldest only daughter. I’ve feel like it’s the end of the world. I’ve have to make the choice to either. Rent an apartment with my boyfriend, or move back home. College was rough for me and I ended up dropping out but I plan on switching to the technical school nearby my old college. My boyfriend wants to move in with me. But I’m scared my family will hate me, my mom has expressed me not wanting to move out. She says I shouldn’t be playing housewife and I’ll end up pregnant. She constantly diminished my relationship and says it’ll all end up badly. My relationship is very equal and stable, my boyfriend and I don’t fight we split things and we communicate and been together almost 2 years. We’ve basically already been living together before. I don’t want to leave my family but my family doesn’t always treat me the best, but I’m scared to lose them too. Any advice? My family treats me like a child even though I’m fully self independent.
Moving out pros:
Own place, no helicopter parents, can do things I want, being with my boyfriend, don’t feel guilty all the time,
Cons:
Family will yell at me and try and guilty me, won’t see my younger brother as much, feel like I’ll be missing out, guilt
Has anyone else been through this?
Im scared to make a decision.