u/FireMedic_Jace

So, a few years ago, I started an affair with an ex of mines that only lasted a few months. I am over her (or so I believe so) yet it still hurts. I’m on a better path now but the way it ended wasn’t the problem. It was her betraying me in a way that ended what was a 10 year friendship after the affair was done. If love is like a drug, what’s the best way to full move on? I wouldn’t go back to her but like a drug, there’s this urge that if I’m around her or in the same room as her, I start to miss her. I’m still angry and we don’t talk anymore but how do you get over someone that was your best friend and lover for nearly a decade? How do you go from them being your comfort person to them being a stranger you don’t recognize?