u/Fire_Fly0

37[F4R] anywhere/online, help a girl get through work?

Hey guys! Seems like i'll be having a long and slow day at work so naturally turning to reddit for rescue! We can just chat for the day but open to continue if we vibe.

If you love books and cats we will get along great. Tell me about your day/ night, something on your mind, any new movies you loved. What's your favourite ice cream flavour or do you enjoy any odd food combinations? I like fries dipped in vanilla shake! Open to talk about anything non-nsfw.

Would appreciate if you're around my age group and single. To give you an idea about time i'm in Pakistan and its gonna be noon here soon. I dont mind your location or a time difference.

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u/Fire_Fly0 — 3 days ago

37[F4M] Pakistan/World, Looking for my forever person!

Heya guys, have posted here a couple times and spoken to some interesting people, however, nothing stuck for one reason or another. So here I am, giving this one last shot.

Who am I

37 year old muslim woman in Pakistan. Books, cats and chocolates are my love. I enjoy anything fantasy and horror. LoTR is my absolute fav thing. I enjoy arts and crafts and like to paint, draw, write. My friends would describe me as kind and gentle but with a bit of sass. I am emotionally self aware and dont shy away from vulnerability. I am an empath and am told i'm easy to talk to. I work a fulltime job so my weekdays can be busy busy but i still take time out to enjoy the things that bring me joy.

Who/ what i am looking for

While i would prefer a muslim man, i am open to talking to someone who has been exploring the religion or is interested in it. I am drawn to non conventional personalities, hence this is an open to the world post. Pakistani men can be amazing but not my cup of tea. Someone around my age group (mid 30s to early 40s). I find men attractive who are optimistic, high energy, funny and witty. Settled in life and emotionally mature. I value honesty and straight forwardness. You dont have to be a super animal lover but kindness/ empathy to animals is a must for me.

With this post i'm looking to get to know someone where we hit it off naturally. Banter, romance and sparks. The book girlie in my me has always wanted to experience a grand love story and what is better than a cross border love story?

Since this would be an LDR situation if things progress, you should be open to travelling to Pakistan (for practical reasons we can discuss if it comes to it) to meet within a reasonable timeframe.

If i sound like your type or you mine don't be shy and send me a bit about yourself. Open to exchange selfie if we hit it off.

P.s i would not be replying to low effort messges, nsfw accounts or if you dont meet my basic criteria.

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u/Fire_Fly0 — 6 days ago

37[F4M] #anywhere/world, Forever kinda connection?

Heya fellow redditors!

I'm a 37 year old muslim woman in Pakistan. As the title says, i'm looking to explore a connection with someone located anywhere in the world. The kinda connection that just clicks naturally and has potential to turn into something permanent.

I'm a simple girl who enjoys the simple things in life. Work full time but also make time for the things i enjoy. You will find me lost in a book more often than not. I adore cats and have a few fur babies. I enjoy things that feed my creativity and am always happy to learn something new. I'm emotionally self aware and don't shy away from vulnerability. My friends would describe me as a kind soul having a sassy personality.

Who i'm looking for is a single man, around my age group (mid 30s to early 40s), muslim or interested in the religion, settled in his life. I'm attracted to men who are confident, witty and, adventurous. Kind and humble. Empathy for animals is a must. I would hope you are emotionally self aware as well and enjoy open communication.

If this interests you, don't be shy and send me a chat with a bit about yourself.

Have a great day/ evening wherever you are!

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u/Fire_Fly0 — 10 days ago

37[F4M] #anywhere/ world, Looking for my forever person

Heya fellow redditors!

I'm a 37 year old muslim woman in Pakistan. As the title says, i'm looking to explore a connection with someone located anywhere in the world. The kinda connection that just clicks naturally and has potential to turn into something permanent.

I'm a simple girl who enjoys the simple things in life. Work full time but also make time for the things i enjoy. You will find me lost in a book more often than not. I adore cats and have a few fur babies. I enjoy things that feed my creativity and am always happy to learn something new. I'm emotionally self aware and don't shy away from vulnerability. My friends would describe me as a kind soul having a sassy personality.

Who i'm looking for is a single man, around my age group (mid 30s to early 40s), muslim or interested in the religion, settled in his life. I'm attracted to men who are confident, witty and, adventurous. Kind and humble. Empathy for animals is a must. I would hope you are emotionally self aware as well and enjoy open communication.

If this interests you, don't be shy and send me a chat with a bit about yourself.

Have a great day/ evening wherever you are!

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u/Fire_Fly0 — 12 days ago

37[F4M] Anywhere/world, Hoping to meet my forever person!

Heya fellow redditors!

I'm a 37 year old muslim woman in Pakistan. As the title says, i'm looking to explore a connection with someone located anywhere in the world. The kinda connection that just clicks naturally and has potential to turn into something permanent.

I'm a simple girl who enjoys the simple things in life. Work full time but also make time for the things i enjoy. You will find me lost in a book more often than not. I adore cats and have a few fur babies. I enjoy things that feed my creativity and am always happy to learn something new. I'm emotionally self aware and don't shy away from vulnerability. My friends would describe me as a kind soul having a sassy personality.

Who i'm looking for is a single man, around my age group (mid 30s to early 40s), muslim or interested in the religion, settled in his life. I'm attracted to men who are confident, witty and, adventurous. Kind and humble. Empathy for animals is a must. I would hope you are emotionally self aware as well and enjoy open communication.

If this interests you, don't be shy and send me a chat with a bit about yourself.

Have a great day/ evening wherever you are!

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u/Fire_Fly0 — 12 days ago

Heya guys! Stuck on a solo assignment at work for the most of the day and looking to chat with someone to make it not so boring.

As i mentioned, would prefer voice messages as it would be easy for me to respond and the voice adds more dimension to the conversation.

Don't mind talking about anthing (No nsfw stuff). So tell me about your life and adventures, that coworker you dont like, or your guilty pleasure food.

Would appreciate if you can share a bit about yourself in the first message. Would prefer to talk to people around my age group.

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u/Fire_Fly0 — 17 days ago

It's not impossible right? Or i read too much fiction 😅

Heya guys! Trying this again because i had some good chats last time but unfortunately not what i was looking for.

37 yr old muslim woman from Pakistan. Work full time, binger of movies and tv, lover of books and chocolates, adorer of cats and a fan of anything fantasy and horror. I'm pretty much content with where i am at in life and would love to have someone to share the journey with.

Why reddit you may ask? Because i don't date locally (nothing against Pakistani men, the attraction is just not there) or do traditional dating apps (we all know how amazing those are).

What kinda guy i'm looking for? Single, around my age group (mid 30s to early 40s, give or take), mostly settled in life, emotionally self aware, intentional, kind and humble. I find men who are funny/ witty, nerdy or have hobbies and interests and quirky personalities interesting. Someone who is themselves.

What you get? A perpetually sleepy, fantasy loving girl who prefers the company of animals. I would only ever steal your fries and demand you marathon lord of the rings with me.

If i don't sound too crazy, don't be shy and introduce yourself. Would appreciate you start off with a bit about yourself to get the convo rolling. Also because I do not reply to low effort messages.

If you got this far, i hope you have a wonderful day/ night whereever you are!

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u/Fire_Fly0 — 19 days ago

It's not impossible right? Or i read too much fiction 😅

Heya guys! Trying this again because i had some good chats last time but unfortunately not what i was looking for.

37 yr old muslim woman from Pakistan. Work full time, binger of movies and tv, lover of books and chocolates, adorer of cats and a fan of anything fantasy and horror. I'm pretty much content with where i am at in life and would love to have someone to share the journey with.

Why reddit you may ask? Because i don't date locally (nothing against Pakistani men, the attraction is just not there) or do traditional dating apps (we all know how amazing those are).

What kinda guy i'm looking for? Single, around my age group (mid 30s to early 40s, give or take), mostly settled in life, emotionally self aware, intentional, kind and humble. I find men who are funny/ witty, nerdy or have hobbies and interests and quirky personalities interesting. Someone who is themselves.

What you get? A perpetually sleepy, fantasy loving girl who prefers the company of animals. I would only ever steal your fries and demand you marathon lord of the rings with me.

If i don't sound too crazy, don't be shy and introduce yourself. Would appreciate you start off with a bit about yourself to get the convo rolling. Also because I do not reply to low effort messages.

If you got this far, i hope you have a wonderful day/ night whereever you are!

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u/Fire_Fly0 — 19 days ago

Heya guys! Got a few hours remaining at work and stuck working solo. Looking to pass this time chatting with someone so naturally turning to reddit!

Have mentioned voice messages as it would be fun and also easy for me to respond without pausing work too much.

Send me a bit about yourself to get the conversation started. We can talk about movies or books, or the weather or whatever comes to mind. Not looking for anything nsfw.

Say hi with your age and location and we can exchange off app details.

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u/Fire_Fly0 — 24 days ago