Does sex feel one sided to you guys?
Not in the sense that your partner isn’t into it. Just that you are doing all of the work.
I’ve had sex with a decent amount of people for my age (19M with 5 partners) and no matter who I fuck all my partners either can’t take me well (or at all), or they pull a starfish and let me do all the work.
Now trust me I’m not complaining about topping. I love being in control and watching this struggle to take me but eventually getting used to me. I just thought it was interesting.
The reason I’m thinking about this is that me and my current gf had sex last night and after I was able to get it in it didn’t seem like she was taking me as good as she does when I’m on top. I kinda said screw it and proceeded to power bottom her that night. But this was the first time I’ve thought that being a bottom is impossible and that it’ll always be me who’s in control.
I’d like to hear yalls thoughts and see if anyone has any similar experiences