I just want to share this line that made me realize I've been stoic for half of my life and it's a big challenge for me now to be vulnerable.
I thought being stoic is way better than being vulnerable since you can control your emotion--composed.
However, I've come to notice how people can easily give away their weaknesses and people around them still find it endearing.
Edit: Actually, I can't edit the title. Sorry, it should be stoicism.
Problem/Goal:
Are they on duty 24/7 na bawal talaga mag phone, unless day off?
Context:
He's a high school friend, and he was showing signs and told me na he likes me daw. He also asked what age do I want to get married ganun. But some promises and remarks are kind of off? Parang play safe? Anyway, he's on duty as a PCG trainee ig? Kasi hndi pa daw siya graduate.
So one time, he called me saying na they only have 10mins to call someone at ang number ko lang daw memorize niya, at hindi parents niya.
Previous attempts:
I asked him about it pero I'm kinda skeptical lol. May army din kasi Akong friend and he can even post a picture on his day and message on our group. Pero syempre army naman iyon.
Ayaw ko pong umasa🙂↕️