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Why do some girls agree to being a side chick?

Problem/Goal: Why do some girls agree to being a side chick?

Context: My ex of 5 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago and already hard-launched a new girlfriend. I found out they met at a bar 3 weeks ago, and he admitted that's when they started talking.I reached out to the girl because I didn't know if she was aware he was still in a relationship at the time. She confirmed they started talking and seeing each other then, wished me the best, and blocked me right after. I'm a woman too, and if I were in her shoes, I'd appreciate someone letting me know (apparently, my ex is her first boyfriend).

Previous Attempts: I know I should just be mad at my ex, but I really don't understand how some girls are okay being the third party. What's the thought process there? 😭

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u/Firm-Control-2703 — 8 days ago