Why do tucutes think being trans is an accessory?
I saw a post today on TikTok that said:
"I don't think I could date a straight guy cuz I'm low-key a little transgender and I feel like I gotta be with someone prepared for if I'm kinda a boy sometimes."
The comments were somehow even worse and nobody saw any issue with the post. I went to the OP's profile and it just said "any pronouns" despite them presenting themselves entirely as a cis woman: videos with makeup on, low cut shirts showing their cleavage out, etc
They then proceeded to call me, a binary trans person, insane for "telling them how to express their gender."
I've consistently seen posts like this where tucutes say things along the lines of "Sometimes I feel transgender but sometimes I dont." or "If I didn't enjoy being a girl so much I'd transition into a guy."
As a binary trans dude I find it so offensive and disrespectful that these people think they can throw around the prospect of being trans like they're talking about what they're eating for lunch.
Why is the prospect of being discriminated against, hated and vilified so appealing to these people?