What to do with my manipulative emotionally financially abusive husband
I’ve been married for almost 2 years and been with him for almost 4. The beginning of our relationship was great he was kind, chivalrous,financially stable and altogether a good person. but after getting pregnant with our first child he started to change he started to bring up my past bring up my sexual relationships with my past partners and making me feel like a whore even though I know I wasn’t. After having our baby he became more manipulative and controlling at the time my parents and I did not have a good relationship due to my son. I started to distance myself from them and that became distancing myself from everyone (I have a better relationship with them now and I know they would take us in if I lefted) he liked that and he became more controlling about money to were I have nothing now we have a lot of fights to were it’s almost everyday something is wrong and it always is my fault in the end even if I know I did nothing wrong. He calls me mean names like retard (I have dyslexia and I may be autistic) even if I tell him I don’t like it he says it’s a joke he calls me a whole bunch of other derogatory names. He went on a trip for a week and it was like a breath of fresh air even though he only gave me 40 dollars in case of an emergency and would be mad if I went anywhere without him knowing. He doesn’t do much for the kids and I’m starting to see him be overly mean to our 2 year old over stupid things like not listening. I know I can handle them alone I’m just struggling to make the choice of leaving I really need to get advice
I know this is confusing but I’m kinda having a lot of anxiety about posting this