Family wedding
My nephew and fiancé got married a few months ago in the court house with his parents and siblings we were not invited not a big deal. We later got an invite on fb for a celebration dinner at my nephews house that was going to be very casual, no dancing, bar, etc 2.5 hours away each way for four hours. It so happened to be on the same day as my first and only child’s first music choir concert that his class got picked to be in. We chose not to go which also meant my parents couldnt go because we drive them and let my nephew know, asked if we could take them out to dinner another time, sent flowers etc for that day. My nephew seemed fine with it. I tried to call my brother a few times to let him know over the phone and I didn’t get ahold of him and I didn’t want to do it via text. I got a text from my sister in law saying that she’s mad and that my son’s concert was an “excuse” not to come and imagine if they didn’t come to our wedding back when we got married. Now my brother isn’t really talking to us/me. He and I are kinda close despite a 13 yr age gap and I hate that he’s mad at me because it’s killing me. I didn’t mean to hurt that many feelings but I was excited to see my kiddos first concert and do something for my small family. Was I really in the wrong?