u/FishyNewAccount

Questioning my past history

I'm talking to this girl I really like, and I even flew out to meet her. I think for the first time through my 2 years of doing this, I'm actually in love with this person and I feel like she really fits into my life.

The thing that is scaring me is that she keeps asking about my past relationships and questioning my general lack of history. I didn't really date in college because of a messy thing I had going (which I told her about) and then after graduation, work, COVID, higher studies all kind of held me back from meeting people or putting in the requisite effort to keep something going.

If she has a history, I'm not worried about it, and I really don't want to pry. I'm worried if she thinks my lack of history is a red flag, which may be right, but I hope not.

For context, I'm in the US

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u/FishyNewAccount — 6 days ago