Hi everyone, I'm a guy (28M) and I’d like to share something that’s been bothering me and get your thoughts.
I have two male friends — one bisexual (27M), one straight (29M) (with a girlfriend). We’re former workmates from 2023 to 2024 in Cavite and recently hung out at another friend’s house. It was a fun night of catching up, food, and drinks.
**TL;DR After midnight, the three of us ended up in the same room. Something unexpected happened between us, and now I feel really awkward about it. On one hand, the moment was intense, but on the other, I can’t shake off the weirdness. **
To add context: I had an almost-relationship with one of them before (no label, but we acted like lovers), and we eventually settled as friends.
Now I don’t know how to handle things moving forward. Should I talk to them about it? Pretend it didn’t happen? I value our friendship, but I’m stuck between feeling awkward and curious.
Any advice on how to deal with this situation would be appreciated.