ABYG kasi naiinis ako sa "nanay" ng bf ko?
I (F26) have moved in with my bf (29) after a year of being in a relationship.
It's not the typical live-in setup because I am renting a room in their house (they're renting out their entire 2nd floor, has separate entrance from their main house), and my bf stays with me.
Now, my bf has 2 moms. Yung bio mom nya, and yung tita nya na nagpalaki sa kanya. I have no issues with her bio mom because she is sport. Like literal na hindi nakikialam, but she gives me food, we go out together, and all.
His tita is the same, whom he also calls "ma" kasi nga yun ang nagpalaki sa kanya. The only problem is, she treats my bf like a child.
Whenever we go out, she always calls him. Like everyday. Not a day na hindi nakakatanggap ng call yung bf ko sa kanya to ask about his whereabouts. She spams him with calls and texts if he doesn't answer.
Minsan nga pag may out of town kami tas malalaman nila, magsasabi pa yan na bakit daw hindi sya sinama. Or even on our dinner dates, magpaparinig. I understand yung concern pero naiinis ako. Yung bio mom nga nya hindi halos naghahanap sa bf ko. Kahit nga mom ko na ako yung nasa malayo from my fam, barely calls me.
I don't know. I may be feeling weird about it. I may be the gago pero sometimes I feel like this isn't normal. I hate that they are treating him like a child when he's almost 30. I hate it minsan pag pumupunta sya sa kwarto para magtambay, and they will be side by side in our bed. I even joked and told my bf it's giving mama's boy vibes. Lol
I am fine with mom surveillance. It's normal kasi we're both legally single. Pero minsan mapapa-side eye nalang talaga ako. ABYG? If you're in my shoes, what will you do?