AITA for asking my fiancé to move out
i’m trying to figure out if I am overreacting.
My fiancé and I have been together for 2 1/2 years living under the same roof two of those years. We are both in our mid 40s and I have two children from my first marriage who passed away.
He has had a very strict/rigid routine for his whole adult life. And I was aware of that overtime, though I felt like I was just expected to fit in wherever I could not the time was actually made. He works from 7 to 6, an hour and a half five days a week working out at the or at home, and then about an hour and 30 to an hour and 45 minutes every night doing his bathroom routines. I have asked for more intentional time and he has stated that he will not alter the schedule or the days of the week that he works out. he participates in very little family activities. And sleeps in on Sundays every weekend 10am. I feel like there is no relationship. Even the bedroom has very strict rules about not wanting to be intimate during the week and having a very limited window around lunchtime on Saturdays. It’s always what he wants to watch what he wants to listen to.
straw that finally broke me was when I was sick and asked him to skip the and come home to help me with the kids and he chose the gym. I have never asked for help before and now I’m the bad guy. I feel like I’m losing my mind. AITA?