“Ask in a nice way and people will be more open to listen to you”
Ok. Have you heard to Earthling Ed, Vegan Table Talks of any of the activists who stick to soft and logical approaches? Yes. Are you open to change after listening to them? No, I could never be vegan. Exactly. It is not about the approach then, it is just that you don’t want to change and are looking for blaming the messenger instead of reflecting about the truth the messenger is trying to make you aware of. You are using the messenger as a scapegoat to stop listening to your own conscience screaming at you the immorality you cause with your choices. So you don’t ever adhere to your own advice, you are lying to yourself. You know your excuses are bad, you just don’t want to change. You want to keep deluding yourself into thinking you are a peaceful person while paying for the most atrocious violence towards innocent beings who can't speak to defend themselves. You are too comfortable in your position as an oppressor of animals, a slave to the emotional attachment to the body parts you eat and too fearful to stand up against social norms to be bothered with leaving animals alone. Tough shit. If you want to be comfortable with paying for violence towards animals, get used to feel uncomfortable with people remembering you the violence you pay for.
"you are pushing me away from veganism by advocating this way" Bullshit. You are a slave to taste pleasure and you don't want to change because you are too comfortable with other animals suffering for your convenience. Take accountability for your actions. Stop paying for animal torture, abuse and murder.
If you want to put innocent animals through hell for your benefit, we will make sure you are aware of the consequences of your choices.
And to all apologists who will come to hate me for making oppressors uncomfortable: throw me all the garbage you want. I couldn't care less. No issues vegans suffer will ever compare with the hell animals are going through.