Does my hubby even like me?
Straight up sometimes I don’t think my husband is physically attracted to me. It’s a topic I bring up often, about physical touch and cuddling, even after we are intimate there’s not much touching after. I often say we should hug more, kiss more, anytime I come home it’s just a peck. I even tried to initiate a more intimate kiss and he just wasn’t receptive and even turned his head away, and then said his neck hurt. It makes me very sad and feel very unwanted. It’s nothing new and something I’ve communicated multiple times. This isn’t a “you should talk to him” type scenario I have. We’ve been together 5 years, married for 2 and have a toddler. I’m the main breadwinner and work full time while he is part time and takes care of the kiddo. He’s a great dad, and I would consider him my best friend, I want to keep trying but I’m getting really tired of feeling the way I’ve felt and repeating myself, because I know when I do bring it up he feels bad like I’m trying to attack him and tell him he’s doing a bad job, but I’ve told him that I am just a communicator and don’t wanna bottle up these feelings. I don’t think I’m unattractive or undesirable but maybe I am incorrect. Any advice? Thanks for reading!