I don’t get why Asian moms love their sons so much and expect their daughters to do everything
My whole life I’ve always been the one to do everything my mom wanted, but she never liked me. I feel like a lot of Asian moms treat their daughters badly and their sons like Buddha himself.
I’m 24 now and at 20 my dad passed and I’ve been doing everything, literally everything, renewing house insurances, getting car insurance for us, talking to lawyers for my dad’s will. EVERYTHING. While going to school and keeping an eye on my younger brother all because my mom chose not to learn English during the 25 years she’s been here. To be fair I do live with her still because I’m still in school and my current job doesn’t pay enough for me to move out. I’m grateful for everything but holy shit I have to do everything because apparently my brother is 2 years old and is too innocent to know how to do anything. My mom can leave the house without “you have to cook for him or else he’ll starve to death” he’s 21. Always praising him and giving him whatever he wants but when it comes to me I have to do whatever she says or I’m useless. She doesn’t want me to get married or move out or else “who’s going to take care of me”. Idk maybe my brother you love so much??? I’m going to lose it. I can’t even go out with friends or stay over at peoples houses (not even my relatives, she hates them) because she’s the only family that loves me? I’m tweaking out I love her and I feel bad for the day I do leave her but I don’t think I can handle another one of her tantrums when something doesn’t go her way.
Tell me I’m not evil for wanted to cut contact after I graduate and move far as physically possible.